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Beyond Conventional Training: How I’M MORE Can Help Young Adults Learn, Manage Stress and Build a Brighter Future

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Introduction: Every Young Adult Deserves the Opportunity to Progress

NEET support for young adults plays an essential role in helping young people aged 18–24 build confidence, develop practical skills and prepare for employment opportunities.

For young people aged 18–24 who are not in education, employment or training (NEET), conventional approaches can sometimes feel overwhelming, discouraging or disconnected from their personal strengths and ambitions.

Some young adults struggle with concentration, confidence, communication or organisation. Others face additional challenges involving financial pressures, caring responsibilities, health conditions, previous negative experiences or limited access to appropriate support.

These difficulties can affect motivation and make it harder to take the next step towards employment.

However, struggling in one learning environment does not mean someone lacks intelligence, ambition or potential.

Sometimes, the solution is not to demand more effort from the individual but to reconsider how learning, guidance and support are delivered.

At I’M MORE, the philosophy of Discover. Believe. Become. provides a framework for helping young adults recognise their abilities, develop confidence and prepare for meaningful opportunities.

The aim is to support young people as individuals who are developing independence, managing responsibilities and making decisions about their futures.

Through flexible learning, practical activities, supportive relationships and achievable goals, young adults can develop skills that help them progress towards employment, training and personal development.

1. Why Traditional Learning Does Not Work for Everyone

Conventional education and training often involve listening to instructions, reading lengthy materials, completing assignments independently and meeting strict deadlines.

Although these methods can be effective, they do not meet everyone’s needs equally.

A young adult may understand a task immediately when someone demonstrates it but struggle to follow several pages of written instructions.

Another person may have excellent practical skills but experience anxiety when speaking in front of a group.

Someone else may be enthusiastic about learning but find it difficult to organise tasks, manage competing priorities or know where to begin.

These challenges can arise for many reasons, including limited experience, low confidence, stress, accessibility barriers or differences in attention and information processing.

Neurodivergent individuals, including some autistic people and people with ADHD, may benefit from adjustments that make instructions, environments and expectations easier to navigate.

However, individual needs vary. Support should always be based on understanding the person rather than making assumptions.

Understanding the Barriers Facing NEET Young Adults

Young adults who are not in education, employment or training may face several overlapping barriers.

These can include:

  • Limited work experience or qualifications.
  • Low confidence following previous setbacks.
  • Difficulties accessing suitable employment opportunities.
  • Financial pressures or transport challenges.
  • Health conditions or additional support needs.
  • Negative experiences of conventional education.
  • Uncertainty about career options and future goals.

Research from the Department for Work and Pensions has highlighted the importance of personalised support for young people who are NEET.

According to the DWP Survey of Young People Not in Education, Employment or Training, its 2026 survey of 417 young people aged 16–24 reported that 84% wanted to move into employment, education or training.

This highlights an important distinction: wanting to progress and knowing how to overcome the barriers to progress are not the same thing.

Rather than assuming someone lacks motivation, trainers and mentors should explore what is preventing meaningful participation.

The right questions can help identify practical solutions.

2. DISCOVER: Recognising Strengths and Understanding Learning Needs

The first stage of the I’M MORE philosophy is Discover.

Before young adults can confidently plan their future, they need opportunities to understand their abilities, interests, challenges and preferred ways of engaging with learning.

Discovery begins by recognising that valuable skills can exist outside formal education and paid employment.

Helping family members, volunteering, participating in community activities, organising events or completing personal projects can all develop transferable skills.

These experiences may demonstrate responsibility, teamwork, communication, problem-solving and reliability.

Young adults can also explore I’M MORE’s employment and training resources to learn more about skills development and possible routes towards work.

Flexible Approaches to Learning

Different tasks benefit from different teaching methods.

Although people often describe themselves as visual, auditory or practical learners, research does not support treating individuals as having one fixed learning style.

A more useful approach is to provide different ways to access information, practise skills and demonstrate understanding.

Visual Learning Resources

Some young adults benefit from information presented through:

  • Diagrams and flowcharts.
  • Short instructional videos.
  • Illustrated checklists.
  • Demonstrations.
  • Clearly organised progress boards.

For example, a visual checklist can help someone prepare for a job interview by breaking the process into manageable stages.

Discussion and Guided Explanation

Conversations, questions and verbal explanations can help young adults understand unfamiliar concepts.

However, not everyone feels comfortable speaking in a group.

Providing opportunities for one-to-one discussion, written responses and additional thinking time can make participation more accessible.

Practical and Experiential Learning

Practical activities help connect learning with real-life situations.

Examples include preparing a CV, completing a mock interview, creating a personal budget, planning a journey to work or solving a workplace problem.

These experiences allow participants to understand why particular skills matter and how they can be used outside the training environment.

Reading, Writing and Reflection

Written resources remain valuable when they are accessible and clearly structured.

Short guides, worksheets, examples and personal notes can help young adults review information and reflect on their progress.

The objective is to provide a range of appropriate learning opportunities rather than expecting everyone to succeed through one method.

3. Making Training Practical, Flexible and Engaging

Understanding individual needs is only the beginning.

Effective training also requires methods that make learning achievable, relevant and engaging.

The Education Endowment Foundation’s guidance on metacognition and self-regulated learning highlights the importance of helping learners plan, monitor and evaluate their learning.

Demonstrate, Practise and Build Independence

A useful approach is to demonstrate a task, complete an example together and then allow the learner to practise independently.

For example, when teaching CV writing, a trainer might first explain a completed example.

Next, the participant identifies their own relevant skills and experiences.

Finally, they prepare a personal CV using the guidance provided.

As confidence develops, the trainer can gradually reduce the level of support.

Break Complicated Tasks into Smaller Steps

Lengthy instructions can increase confusion, particularly when someone is unfamiliar with the task or experiencing stress.

Instead of explaining an entire project at once, trainers can introduce a few manageable steps and check understanding before continuing.

This helps young adults focus on what needs to happen next.

Combine Structure with Personal Choice

Clear expectations can reduce uncertainty, while appropriate choices help participants develop independence.

For example, a learner might demonstrate their understanding through a presentation, written explanation or practical activity, provided the chosen format meets the requirements.

The goal is to maintain meaningful standards while recognising that people may approach tasks differently.

Provide Constructive Feedback

Feedback should explain what someone has achieved and what they can improve.

Instead of saying, “You need to be more organised,” a trainer could explain:

“You have identified the main tasks. Now let’s put them in order and decide which one should happen first.”

Specific guidance helps learners understand how to improve without feeling unnecessarily discouraged.

4. BELIEVE: Building Confidence Through Achievable Progress

The second stage of the I’M MORE philosophy is Believe.

Confidence does not develop simply because someone is told to think positively.

It often grows through experience, practical support, constructive feedback and recognition of progress.

For young adults who have experienced repeated setbacks, encouragement becomes more meaningful when it is connected to achievable actions.

Start with Manageable Challenges

Someone who finds job applications overwhelming might begin by identifying three personal strengths.

They could then use those strengths to write a short personal statement before completing a full application.

A person who feels anxious about interviews might begin by practising with a trusted mentor.

They could then complete a mock interview before approaching a real employer.

Each stage creates an opportunity to develop confidence through experience.

Recognise Transferable Skills

Young adults may underestimate abilities developed through everyday responsibilities.

Caring for family members, volunteering, repairing equipment, organising activities or helping others can demonstrate useful qualities.

These experiences do not replace every formal employer requirement, but they can provide valuable evidence of transferable skills.

Encourage Accountability Without Unnecessary Pressure

Supportive training should encourage young adults to take responsibility for their progress.

However, accountability should be combined with understanding and practical problem-solving.

If someone misses a deadline, the response should involve exploring what happened, identifying barriers and agreeing on an appropriate next step.

This approach helps participants learn from difficulties rather than becoming defined by them.

5. Recognising and Managing Stress Before It Becomes Overwhelming

Stress can affect concentration, memory, decision-making, motivation and behaviour.

A young adult experiencing overwhelm may become distracted, withdrawn, irritable or uncertain about how to begin a task.

Recognising these difficulties allows trainers and mentors to respond constructively.

The NHS Every Mind Matters service provides information and practical guidance for managing stress and supporting mental wellbeing.

Identify What Is Causing the Pressure

The first step is understanding what feels difficult.

The problem might involve unclear instructions, a noisy environment, fear of failure, competing responsibilities or an approaching deadline.

A supportive conversation can help identify the immediate concern.

Reduce the Next Task to Something Manageable

When someone feels overwhelmed, additional instructions may increase the pressure.

Instead, identify one achievable action.

This might involve reviewing the first instruction, preparing necessary materials or completing a small part of the task.

Where appropriate, a short break, quieter environment or written checklist may also help.

Offer Practical Stress-Management Strategies

Some people find comfortable breathing exercises, grounding techniques or short breaks useful when stress increases.

These strategies should be offered as options rather than imposed as universal solutions.

Different individuals respond to stress in different ways.

Recognise When Specialist Support Is Needed

Training and mentoring can provide encouragement and practical guidance, but they are not substitutes for professional healthcare.

When stress is persistent, severe or significantly affecting everyday life, young adults should be encouraged to seek appropriate support from a GP or qualified health professional.

6. Developing Time Management and Organisational Skills

Time management is not simply about working harder or becoming more disciplined.

It involves understanding priorities, estimating how long tasks will take, remembering commitments and adapting when circumstances change.

These skills are valuable during training and throughout employment.

Make Responsibilities Visible

A calendar, notebook or digital task list can help participants organise appointments, deadlines and commitments.

Keeping information in one reliable place reduces the need to remember everything.

Turn Vague Intentions into Specific Actions

A goal such as “work on my future” is difficult to measure.

A clearer task might be:

“Spend 15 minutes updating the employment section of my CV.”

Specific actions make it easier to begin and recognise completion.

Prioritise Important Tasks

Tasks can be organised into three categories:

Urgent: Activities requiring immediate attention because of deadlines or consequences.

Important: Activities that contribute to meaningful goals but may not require immediate completion.

Can wait: Activities that are useful but less important than current priorities.

This approach helps prevent every responsibility from feeling equally urgent.

Use Focused Working Periods

Some individuals benefit from working for 15–25 minutes before taking a short break.

Others prefer longer sessions.

The most effective approach is one that supports concentration and can be maintained consistently.

Allow Flexibility

Unexpected problems, travel delays, family responsibilities and health difficulties can disrupt even a well-organised schedule.

A realistic plan should allow room for these situations.

Time management should help young adults feel more capable, not create additional guilt.

7. How to Manage a Large Project Under Pressure

Completing a major project can feel intimidating, particularly when deadlines are approaching.

Whether the task involves a presentation, training assessment, job application or practical assignment, the key is to break the work into manageable stages.

Step 1: Understand the Requirements

Identify what needs to be completed, the deadline, the required format and any essential criteria.

Ask for clarification before beginning if instructions are unclear.

Step 2: Divide the Project into Smaller Tasks

Break the overall outcome into individual activities.

For example, a presentation might require research, planning, drafting, reviewing and practising.

Step 3: Identify the Priorities

Separate essential requirements from optional improvements.

Under pressure, completing a clear and usable version is often more important than perfecting minor details.

Step 4: Create a Realistic Schedule

Estimate how long each stage may take.

Include time for checking, unexpected problems and final adjustments.

Step 5: Begin with One Small Action

Starting is often the most difficult stage.

Choose an action that can be completed in five to ten minutes.

This could involve opening the document, writing an outline or gathering materials.

Step 6: Work in Focused Sessions

Concentrate on one task at a time.

After each session, review progress and decide what should happen next.

Step 7: Ask for Support Early

A trainer, mentor or trusted colleague can help clarify instructions, review progress and identify potential problems.

Seeking support is a practical decision, not a failure.

Step 8: Prepare for Difficulties

Consider what could go wrong.

Save work regularly, keep essential information organised and identify alternative actions if unexpected problems arise.

Step 9: Complete a Usable First Version

Aim to finish a complete draft before spending too much time polishing individual sections.

Check that the essential requirements have been met.

Step 10: Review and Learn

After completing the project, reflect on what worked.

Consider which strategies were useful, what caused unnecessary pressure and how the process could be improved next time.

The objective is continuous development rather than perfection.

8. BECOME: Turning Learning into Employment Opportunities

The final stage of the I’M MORE philosophy is Become.

Learning becomes more meaningful when young adults can apply their skills to practical opportunities.

The Become stage connects personal development with employment preparation, further education and vocational training.

Preparing for Employment

Practical activities can help participants develop skills such as:

  • CV writing and job applications.
  • Interview preparation.
  • Workplace communication.
  • Digital confidence.
  • Teamwork and problem-solving.
  • Time management and reliability.
  • Professional conduct.
  • Career research and planning.

Young adults can also explore I’M MORE’s On-Demand Training page for information about the organisation’s employment-focused learning opportunities.

Exploring Different Routes into Work

Not every young adult will move directly into permanent employment.

Some may benefit from apprenticeships, vocational training, further education, volunteering or suitable entry-level opportunities.

The National Careers Service provides information about career options and professional development.

GOV.UK also offers services for finding jobs and exploring apprenticeships.

The most appropriate route will depend on the individual’s circumstances, interests, support needs and ambitions.

Recognising Meaningful Progress

Progress does not look identical for everyone.

For one young adult, success might involve securing employment.

For another, it could mean attending training consistently, completing a CV, gaining confidence in interviews or identifying a suitable career pathway.

These achievements can represent important steps towards greater independence and future opportunities.

It is equally important to recognise that some barriers cannot be resolved through confidence or time management alone.

Health, disability, financial circumstances, caring responsibilities, transport and access to suitable vacancies can all influence employment outcomes.

Effective support must acknowledge these realities.

9. Creating a Supportive Learning Environment

Successful training involves more than delivering information.

Young adults need to understand why learning matters, feel respected and recognise how their efforts connect with meaningful goals.

A supportive programme should combine practical learning with mentoring, clear expectations and regular feedback.

Build Positive Relationships

Consistent, respectful relationships can help participants feel comfortable asking questions and discussing challenges.

Encourage Active Participation

Interactive activities, realistic workplace scenarios and practical exercises can make learning more relevant.

Provide Appropriate Flexibility

Training methods should consider individual needs while maintaining achievable expectations.

Recognise Progress

Celebrating specific improvements in confidence, communication, organisation and practical skills can encourage continued participation.

Connect Learning with Real Opportunities

Participants should understand how the skills they are developing relate to employment, further training and everyday responsibilities.

At I’M MORE, the Discover. Believe. Become. approach provides a consistent framework for connecting these elements.

Readers can learn more about the organisation’s purpose and approach through Our Story.

Conclusion: Different Approaches Can Unlock Real Potential

Young adults who struggle in conventional learning environments do not need to be defined by those difficulties.

They need opportunities to develop their strengths, access appropriate guidance and build practical skills through approaches that recognise their circumstances.

Flexible learning, constructive mentoring, manageable goals and effective stress-management strategies can help young adults develop greater confidence and independence.

The ability to organise tasks, manage pressure, communicate effectively and complete projects is valuable far beyond a training programme.

These skills can support future employment, education and personal development.

At I’M MORE, the message remains clear:

DISCOVER your strengths and recognise your potential.

BELIEVE that progress is possible through learning, support and consistent action.

BECOME better prepared to pursue the opportunities ahead.

Every young adult deserves the chance to develop their abilities, overcome barriers where possible and move towards a future that reflects their potential.

To explore further opportunities or ask about support, visit I’M MORE – Reach Out.

Discover. Believe. Become.

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